- Brian Waldo
- 1 day ago
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Author: Brian Waldo MS CSCS CPT PES CES PN MATjs TFW
John Benz chose to begin a journey with Optimal Health & Performance\Training for Warriors East Metro in Cottage Grove three years or so ago. He has made incredible changes and has lost 96lbs total. Sixy five of that came while working with a nutrtion coach at Optimal Health & Performance, LLC . As a personal choice, no use of GLP-1 medications and consistent dedication to better lifestyle choices has been key. GLP-1 Medications are helpful for many, but John chose his own path. I asked him to answer a few questions regarding his journey so far! He is doing amazing and maybe some of his lessons can help you too!

Can you share a bit about your past journeys with weight loss?
While I’m far from reaching my goal of dancing with that Australian themed “Thunder” show in Vegas, I’m very proud of how far I’ve come, but my journey has been a long one. I’ve struggled with weight almost my entire life, and in that time I’ve lost - and sadly gained back - hundreds of pounds through fad diets, calorie-counting programs, “science” based systems that require you to buy only their vitamins
and snacks, juice fasts (that was a disaster), and intense bouts of big box gym commitments that lasted a few weeks before old habits crept back in. I’ve tried almost everything and found that discipline matters - but accountability matters even more. That has been the biggest difference-maker for me.
What are some of the pitfalls and things you have learned along the way?
There are two big ones. The first is simple; there are no quick fixes. There’s an idiom you hear in recovery circles: “you get well the same way you got sick – slowly.” That applies perfectly to weight loss. You don’t gain the weight overnight, and it can be very hard to accept that you won’t lose it overnight either.
The second - and biggest - pitfall I’ve fallen into more times than I’d like to admit, is treating goals like destinations instead of milestones in a meaningful lifestyle change. For years, I would approach weight loss like, “once I get to X goal, I’m done, and can go back to exactly how I used to live.” Shockingly, that approach produced “yo-yo” results, and disappointment. With Coach Brian’s help, I now look at my health journey as “my new normal”. My goals are more like “waypoints” on along the path – places where I can stop, celebrate, maybe take a selfie, and then keep moving forward.

How did\has nutrition Coaching with Optimal Health & Performance helped you reach new levels?
For starters, I eat vegetables now. Honestly, I never thought anyone would pull that off, but somehow Coach managed it. In all seriousness, the thing that differentiated this program was accountability… but there’s more to it than that. The Optimal Health & Performance coaching program provided accountability from people
who genuinely care about my success. They took the time to get to know me as a person, and met me where I was in my journey. I’ve done programs that claimed to offer “coaching”, but I met with a different person every time and got the same “one-size-fits-all” advice and usually left with a reminder to not forget to order snacks on your way out. This experience was completely different. I’ve built a relationship with my coach, and with that came honest conversations, moments of real catharsis, and the occasional push I needed to stop making excuses and start making progress. One moment that really sticks out to me was when I commented “I’ve never consistently worked out
five days a week - why am I not seeing the results faster?” and Coach said “I’m proud of you for making it in five hours a week, because that’s critical to the process. But five hours is only 3% of your week. It’s what you do with the OTHER 97% that makes the difference.” That completely changed the way I looked at health and this journey.
What has the Training for Warriors System provided for you in regards to your fitness goals?
With zero hyperbole, I can honestly say the Training for Warriors system (TFW) has changed my life and frankly delivered so many things I didn’t even realize I needed.
For example, I didn’t realize how much I needed structure. At a big box gym, when I was left to “choose my own adventure,” I’d usually gravitate exercises I liked, avoiding the ones I didn’t, and leaving early when the two machines I wanted to use were occupied. TFW removes the guesswork. The structure is already there, and it’s designed to build your entire body and overall fitness – not just areas you enjoy training. I didn’t realize I’m a morning person. TFW offers practices throughout the day, but I found that getting
in at 5 AM works best for me because, after work, my motivation drops fast.
I didn’t realize that I needed a family environment. TFW has created a culture where people genuinely support each other. You get to know people, build relationships, and those connections help keep you accountable.
Lastly, I didn’t realize I needed - or could even do - high intensity interval training (HIIT). I came into this program convinced I’d only ever do strength workouts. Then a coach challenged me to try a HIIT practice, and now I genuinely love them. They’ve made a huge difference in both my conditioning and my weight loss.
What would be your top 3 things you would recommend to someone attempting to overcome a large weight loss goal and lifestyle changes?
1) Find your “why”. Making a commitment to major weight loss goal is hard, and it’s critical to understand why you’re doing it. For me, it’s my family. I got tired of feeling like the “fat dad” sitting on the sidelines telling the kids to go play while I watched from a chair. Being present and healthy for my family matters more than temporary soreness or momentary food pleasure. When things get difficult, that’s what keeps me moving forward. Find your reason, and the hard days become easier to manage.
2) Be honest with yourself. Pretending that second handful of goldfish or those two Oreos “don’t actually count” only delays progress. There is a 100% chance you’ll experience setbacks along the way. The important thing is to be honest, give yourself grace, and keep moving forward instead of quitting or going completely off the rails.
3) Find a system that works for you. If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, you will not stick with it long term. I count myself incredibly fortunate I’ve found a workout and coaching program that fits my schedule, pushes me to improve, gives me the tools to succeed, and builds my confidence to keep going.
Is there anything else you would like to share about your journey at Optimal Health Performance/Training for Warriors East Metro?
I’ve tried a lot of different programs over the years, and this has really been a game changer for me. If you’re someone who wants to get healthier but just hasn’t found the right fit yet, I’d encourage you to give this system a shot. There are practices for almost any schedule, and every exercise can be modified for injuries or comfort level.
Honestly, other than weight, you really don’t have anything to lose by giving this a try.
Don't hesitate, contact us today and we can have an honest discussion about how to start making the changes you need to make at www.ohponline.net



